Can't resist one more attempt to clarify. Some people need massive amounts of attention. Fortunately for them other people need to supply massive amounts of attention. It works out so nicely for all involved. If this isn't your gig......don't get involved in this group activity. There are more than enough interesting and informative threads to keep you busy for hours without ever having to go near The Lounge. Enjoy ALL the other great features of this forum. You won't be missing a thing.......except your aggravation. What you should appreciate is that many members of this site are extremely patient and protective of their own, Loyalty is a quality that should be admired. That's one reason I enjoy this forum and it's members. Now I'll shut up because I'm starting to bore myself.