Came home hot and sweaty from 10 hours of volunteer work at my son's school (I'd left my son a note to come volunteer and he never showed), and then noted he also hadn't taken his car to the local full service car wash as I had asked him to three times last week. His car was filthy as he parks under trees at school and had bird droppings, leaves, serious dirt and even twigs stuck to his hood.
So, being that he is 18 and I couldn't really give him a time-out, I quickly decided it was time for a time-in. I asked him to get his shoes on and meet me outside w his car keys while I went outside and packed two buckets full of towels, glass cleaner, car wash soap, and wheel shine.
He came out, I asked him to follow me in his car, and we drove to the local quarter sprayer where we rinsed his car, hand washed it, and he dried it. We then did my mine. We then did the interior, Windows, and rubber on both cars.
We had a good quiet hour working together, and it was actually fun! He didn't complain once. And I do know that next time I tell him to take his car to the local full service car wash-- won won't blow it off. And if he does we will have another great hour together.
Looked out the window this AM, and saw two CVSports, both spotless. Wierd thing is, and I noticed this again yesterday. Even with same size wheels and staggered tires, his HPP has a much better, meaner stance than mine!